The Power of Marriage and Divorce

As a disclaimer I am not telling people to do the following regarding Ecclesiastes, but I  got a moral theoretical and…almost (maybe) rhetorical concept regarding divorce. Now as we know Marriage is a Trinity between the spouses and God, and to symbolize that are the wedding rings that symbolize the promise between the spouses and with God. Let us acknowledge the financial and paper aspect of marriage. Right off the bat, to me that sounds self explanatory, but on taxes and on other forms national or by city (local) that can give benefits.

Should we identify marriage by what is on paper or by spirit convictions and conviction of wills? I tell you this, that marriage should be the latter.

Now with the promise of the rings in the event of a divorce, a paper divorce is not going to divorce you, because it seems to me that there is still a covenant despite what is shown on a local or national database. To me a true divorce is one of spiritual convictions. As if to say, “Return to sender” the spouses could consensually give their ring back to the spouse who originally ringed them on their wedding day, and they could do one of two things: bury their rings/drop them into the ocean or hand them over to a Church Cleric (of which I doubt they would be down for) wherein which he/she either buries them or drops them into the ocean. For this, if this is anywhere at all a must the spouses must consensually discern on the matter and seek discernment counselling from a Church Cleric.

As I began with a disclaimer, I must say that by the definition of human nature, we adapt so we can overcome. As we evolve in the physical so to must we evolve in spiritual matters, and if you want to to argue to say that there is no spiritual matter I would argue that there is, but if you are adamant then think about the emotional matters and try to adapt around that.

We must adapt not just within our external environment(s) but within our internal environment(s), and as marriage is not a bargaining entity it is indisputably an adaptive entity. In marriage we must adapt to the pair-bonding dynamics of marriage where the husband should not think about himself as well should the wife, but adapt to the new concept and adapt in accordance to the spouse. We no longer have our old mold, but we have a new mold wherein our mold grows to adapt to internal and external environments or we must match our mold to the marriage concept that surrounds the other spouse.

Well, I believe I have picked apart my disclaimer well enough. You don’t have to agree with the theory or rhetoric as it is nothing but a mere opinion as is the nature of a theory/rhetorical theory. I hope you enjoyed reading!

B.D. 02

The lamp of the body is the eye. If therefore your eye is good your whole body will be full of light. But if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in you is darkness how great is that darkness!

 – Matthew 22 – 23

In my view this is to say, that in which you entertain is what you will become, and as the eyes are the windows of the soul, what we take in is what we will become. If we pay attention to things of the dark our aura/soul will be of the dark. If we were to focus our attention to faith in the lord, wisdom, enlightenment and joy then our aura/soul will be of light.

No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or else he will be loyal to the one and despise the other .

– Matthew 24

In my view this ties in with the lamp/eye bit above. As no one can serve two masters, you cannot serve the world of the dark and the world of the light at the same time. I say ‘world’ as a collective term of joy, wisdom, enlightenment, love, etc. as things of the world of light and the dark world being greed, pride, hate, sorrow, envy, pain and etc.

Proverbs – 1, 20-22 The Call of Wisdom

Wisdom calls aloud outside; she raises her voice in the open squares. She cries out in the chief concourses, at the openings of the gates in the city She speaks her words: “How long, you simple ones, will love simplicity? For scorners delight in their scorning, and fools hate knowledge.”

Proverbs – 2, 1-5 The Value of Wisdom

My son, if you receive my words and treasure my commands within you, so that you incline your ear to wisdom, and apply your heart to understanding; yes if you cry out for discernment, and lift up your voice for understanding, if you seek her as silver, and search for her as for hidden treasures; then you will understand the fear of the lord, and find the knowledge of God.

Proverbs – 24, 7-9

Wisdom is too lofty for a fool; he does not open his mouth in the gate. He who plots to do evil will be called a schemer. The devising of foolishness is sin, and the scoffer is an abomination to men.

The Cross

  • The cross be pain and love, water and fire, blood and passion and spirit and heart.
  • The cross be light and darkness; light to love, dark to death, beautiful.
  • The cross be wisdom and harmony and truth and justice.
  • The cross be the sorrow of all sorrows, the pain of all pain, the anguish of all anguish, for the cross absolves all.

Wisdom March

  • With knowledge comes power, with power comes strength, with strength comes will and all is wisdom.
  • Wisdom counts for naught unless taught, as where wisdom lies doth beauty shine.
  • So to with wisdom being strong and pure doth the shadows of ignorance procure.
  • Experience brings wisdom, and grants the ability to teach.
  • Wisdom brings pain and suffering, but also brings happiness and comfort.
  • Wisdom often brings truth, and with such can bring the most disturbing unwanted of things.
  • Wisdom lies in those who seek truth in themselves and in others.
  • Wisdom is the truth in knowledge, and comes in many small packages.